No, don't bother looking in
the mirror. Believe us when we tell you that you need to go in for a new
look, a brand new image. That new image will open doors you have not seen
yet, will rejuvenate you in a million end results: You - but an enhanced
you. You have nothing to loose & everything to gain. Let's get to work.
DECIDE ON A SIGNATURE STYLE:
Up until now, you were Sassy Shalini
one day, Demure Diya the next. No more flip - flops; not only it confuse
those you interact with, it probably confuses you, too! Now you need to
become one standout persona. Of course, the persona ought to go well with
your innate nature. Vivacious women can't really morph into enigmatic
Garbos & not cut a sorry figure. Neither can quiet women turn wild cats
overnight.
So, think hard........What are you really, deep inside, that you want to
perfect the art of outside? Are you a woman of mystery? The eternal
tomboy? Ms overtly sexy?
BE FAITHFUL TO THAT STYLE
Now that you have an idea, look outwards. Think of others who match
your persona. Study them. Wear your new persona with flair & more important,
with consistency. Be your new image till people identify you in just that
way. Before you know it, it will have become part of your innate
makeup too.
This will need some working on, to ensure nothing slips & everything looks
smooth as silk.
EASY DO IT
Now that you have a better idea of how you want to present yourself, go easy
on yourself & the rest of us as well. If you are the kind who loves
makeup,
go easy on the paint.
Conversely, if you have decided to tone down & get more subtle in your
makeover, allow your friends to recognize that before you turn up at the
next party like a tragedy queen. That is not the real you, so how can be
that your new image? We recommend a new image, not a dramatic
transformation..... that much drama no woman wants!
PLAY WITH COLOR:
The new image warrants signature colors too.
PASTEL
Complement a cool & collected persona- a woman who likes walk in the
park, the touch of rain in her skin, one who is not easily thrown.
NEON
Are for those adapting a look- at - me image.}
RED
It is a "bomb" color usually carried to striking effect by a bomb!
BROWN AND OTHER EARTH TONES:
Are for the quietly sexy women, one who stays in touch with her
roots.
PINK
Are worn well by the ingénues, the demure dolls, the ones who capitalize on
their innate innocence.
WINE
Are for the chi chi club.
MAUVES
Are inherently sensual, for the woman who is not shying away from her
sensuality.
LET'S TALK AGE
Be comfy with your age. Understand that whether you are 24 or 35 or 40, you
are uniquely you. It is not your age, but yourself & your personality that
you are projecting. Which is why, your style nouveau must sit well with your
years. No playing wacky teenager, wide-eye ingénue or dizzy Miss Lizzy if
you are not in the 15 to 19 age group. (In which case, you ought not to be
looking at a new image!) Your persona ought to be meld seamlessly with your
nature & your lifestyle.
HAIR AND NOW
Hair is the best catalyst of change. Your new look will immediately
be noticed. So, get creative with your hair. Keep it long & highlighted or
short, swinging & chic. Your haircut can subtly highlight your assets, be it
a nice nose, doe-shaped eyes or a sexy Liv Tylerish mouth. It can throw
these assets into sharp relief. Than again, it can also play down what you
perceive to be not-so good features. Check around - get yourself a good hair
therapist.
MOVE ON
By which, we are telling you NOT to adopt a new image every six
months. What is a good idea, though is to subtly, with ever so a light hand,
shade/tone/alter your signature look every few years. Once again, play it
with caution....the look ought to be dramatic not drastic!
SMELL NEW
As in, use fragrance to effect the makeover in a deliciously forceful
manner. Smell has always been a primitive tactile sense, used to great
effect over the ages & through the history of man & more to the paint, of
woman.
So, launch an intense search for your signature scent & take your time. Your
nose will tell you when you have found it, so will almost everyone you pass
on the street! Layer that fragrance into your bath toiletries, tuck cotton
balls soaked into the same scent into your clothes
& lingerie drawers &
soon, people will identify you with "your" scent. The trick is to find the
scent that evokes your special essence. It could be floral, it could be
citrus & green, it could be mellow & fruity, it could be one loud
exclamation. But it has to be you!